Learning Faith and Love in a Box of Sunshine
By Victor L. Midyett
Recently Shirley made the comment to me that, “We know how to survive on little.” I got to thinking about that and realized that it was mostly my missionary upbringing [see “Missionary Kid” stories] that taught me how to survive on little.
As a missionary family in India in the 50s we didn’t “have much,” but I seemed not to know this. We had what we needed and if we wanted more, we just waited, is my memory. A care package from America, sometimes from a church, but mostly from my Aunt Marie, always seemed to arrive at the right time. It was so exciting, like having more than one Christmas a year. It always produced bonuses like candy and chewing gum. My aunt Marie loved to chew gum and I think she thought the whole world needed to also. She sure knew it would please kids.
My sister would put a long-worn-out piece of chewed gum on her bed head at night and whack it back into her mouth the next morning to go at it for a week! I’m serious! Ha! (But then, as a brother, it was my job to question her grip on reality anyway.)
The point is that with negatives I also got some huge positives from my upbringing that most people might not recognize or realize, and I am very thankful for that. It still helps me in my older age to remember gratitude and acceptance, but mostly faith and love.
By Victor L. Midyett
Recently Shirley made the comment to me that, “We know how to survive on little.” I got to thinking about that and realized that it was mostly my missionary upbringing [see “Missionary Kid” stories] that taught me how to survive on little.
As a missionary family in India in the 50s we didn’t “have much,” but I seemed not to know this. We had what we needed and if we wanted more, we just waited, is my memory. A care package from America, sometimes from a church, but mostly from my Aunt Marie, always seemed to arrive at the right time. It was so exciting, like having more than one Christmas a year. It always produced bonuses like candy and chewing gum. My aunt Marie loved to chew gum and I think she thought the whole world needed to also. She sure knew it would please kids.
My sister would put a long-worn-out piece of chewed gum on her bed head at night and whack it back into her mouth the next morning to go at it for a week! I’m serious! Ha! (But then, as a brother, it was my job to question her grip on reality anyway.)
The point is that with negatives I also got some huge positives from my upbringing that most people might not recognize or realize, and I am very thankful for that. It still helps me in my older age to remember gratitude and acceptance, but mostly faith and love.
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Belatedly speaking, THANK YOU, Vic, for kicking in with a “Victor L. Midyett,” which is my term for one of your serious, or philosophical pieces. As either a traveler, a missionary kid, a humorist, or a very serious guy indeed, you are much appreciated!
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